THE OAK
Same people. Forever.
The short version
I’ve held the same group chat together for years and I’m not stopping. My friendships are measured in time, not frequency.
How I show up
- I remember birthdays without an app
- I stay loyal when other people drift
- I show up for the big stuff — weddings, hospitals, hard days
How I feel loved
- When you bring up something we did years ago like it still counts
- When you pick up where we left off without making a thing of it
- When you treat history as a feature, not a phase
What to know about me
- I take a long time to add new people, but once you’re in, you’re in
- I don’t always say it, but I notice who’s still here