THE EMBER
Few friendships. Deep ones.
The short version
My circle is small on purpose. I’d rather have one real conversation than ten polite ones.
How I show up
- I remember the things you only mentioned once
- I ask the questions other people are too scared to
- I’m the friend you can call at 1am — and mean it
How I feel loved
- When you go past surface-level and actually tell me how you are
- When you make time for the long version, not the highlight reel
- When you don’t disappear during the hard months
What to know about me
- I’m bad at casual. Don’t take it personally if I’m quiet at the group dinner
- If I haven’t checked in, I’m probably overwhelmed — please reach in anyway